To me there is nothing like a good old giggle to make you feel better, I had recently being feeling down in the dumps because everyone I seem to know are in adult dating relationships and settled and love what they have. The downside to everyone being happy and settled is that they don’t want to go out as much so when the time comes up for everyone to get together and have a laugh I just have to take advantage and make the most.
So with a hen do coming up we had to get sorted discuss the arrangements and spend the night sticking diamantes on to the bikini bottoms, yes you read that right we had to write our names on our bottoms in hot pink diamantes. Well we spent hours doing the bloody things but the best thing we were all having a great old laugh all at the same time, it was one of those moments that makes you look around at everyone and say yeah I have decent friends.
None of them are up their own arses and the best thing is that they can laugh at themselves, which to me is one important thing if you can’t laugh at yourself sometimes then you really need to learn to lighten up and just relax.
The girly night was just what I needed plus learnt that some of the girls had split from their partners so this meant more people to go out on the town with, one had finished the relationship because the sex was shocking and she could take no more, her words were I would rather have great casual sex rather than be stuck with a man that doesn’t know how to pleasure a woman.
Any bedroom action to me would be fine the lack of it is just awful and the depressing thing is I need and want it but it doesn’t seem to be happening, I have now thought I may take other avenues in to finding a man to fulfil my needs and satisfactions I can no longer go on as I am and I think the thought of growing old on my own is very daunting.
I have of course done the usual thing of going out into town and meeting men but the problem is when you are drunk they seem perfect and then when you meet the in a sober state they don’t seem so appealing. I have also being sent on numerous blind dates by friends who think they are doing a good thing but in actual fact they are just meddling and need to leave alone as from who they have set me up with they don’t know my type very well at all.
So with the night being a huge success and all the diamantes done, plus in my mind I had it all planned on how I was going to bag myself a man and couldn’t wait to get the plan in action, it’s kind of one of those watch this space catch phrase.