I and my husband Dave have been married of over eleven years now and I couldn’t imagine my life without him, we have been together since being at school and the relationship has only got stronger along the time. Don’t get me wrong of course we argue like any other adult dating relationship people do, sometimes we have being on the verge of splitting up and going our separate ways but in the end things are always sorted because simply we wouldn’t be without each other.
We decided a long time ago to never have kids, something we both agreed on we wanted to live our lives and not be tied down, our jobs are important to us so we both went the career route which in turn has given us a comfortable life and the holidays we wanted and the small finer things in life plus we have our dream home, however I must admit since turning thirty the want for a child has increased but I would never burden Dave with it wasn’t in our plans.
We have had a whale of a time over the years what with the swinging parties we have being to, this was because our sex life had gone a bit stale and we fancied re lighting the fire, it was so worth it plus we come to the conclusion that having casual sex was great fun and we enjoyed it but only ever did it when we were together. Somehow it wouldn’t have felt right going off with someone without Dave their thought of it was just a put off so I know I wouldn’t do it.
We recently had a lovely break in the Bakewell just a time for us and to enjoy the moment, we did however meet up with some swingers we had met on the internet and we toughly enjoyed the time they stayed with us in the cottage we had rented. We had some lovely time to ourselves as well which to me keeps us in check with each other and reignites our fire a bit more, I was a bit concerned though as Dave seemed a bit quitter than usual something was definitely playing on his mind, so one evening when we had a bit too much wine and asked what was wrong.
First he was very reluctant to talk as he said it went against what we had planned, now I was worried did he want to go off with other people without me their but no he said quite simply he feels like he is missing out on not having a child, what a relief that was plus it helped I felt the same way I think this had all come about as friends were all announcing they were pregnant and maybe just pushed it further up our own priorities list who knows.
We came to a decision that we would see if it happened but no pressure the main thing was to enjoy each other and all the sex we would be having would definitely bring us that bit closer and help us achieve the goal we had now set in place.