Finding someone to spend time with or just to have sex with is hard work, well I have found it to be anyway, my main thing in life at the minute is not be tied down to one person as I want to just enjoy what is on offer at the minute without the hassle of commitment and I certainly don’t want to be asked where I am going and what are you doing that for, no I want things as simple as possible.
Casual sex to me is a perfect situation to be in get as much as you want with the person you choose and then when you are ready to move on you do, no ties no nothing simple, the only down side to my plan is the men I seem to meet want one night stands and nothing else, that would be alright but I don’t want to notch up a number of men on my bed post, plus having a casual partner means you can contact them when you want and know they will be up for some fun.
I decided that my best option would be to have a look through adult dating websites to get a feel of what people are looking for and to see if there were like minded men out there, there were plenty and the best part is when I searched in my area many men came up looking for discreet fun, some of them I knew but decided I would contact people I didn’t know the last thing I wanted was for this to get complicated.
With emails flying back left right and centre I knew I would find someone to spend some time with and share what we have in common the most, I did hear from some of the men I know but was polite and brushed them off, this for me was also about meeting new people and maybe having some new friends.
I hit it of really well with one of the guys that contacted and I also found that we had a lot in common, I didn’t want to meet straight away as I wanted to make sure he was who he said he was plus I wanted to make sure he wasn’t just talking the talk, I wanted a real man who knew how to handle and pleasure a woman.
I still kept in contact with some of the other men whilst chatting to the other man, I wanted to keep my options open just in case he turned out to be an idiot or not very good in bed, we did lots of web cam chat and I eventually gave in to meet, what harm could it do plus I hadn’t had sex in a while and was in desperate need for some.