I think all my friend should feel lucky they have their men at home with them all week, they help with the house work entertain, the kids at night when they get in and get to have as much sex as they want. Me on the other hand feel like I am a singles mum, my husband works away in the week and comes home on a Friday until Sunday and I feel like I have a causal sex partner as we only get some sexy time at the weekend.
My friends however think I have the dream life, at a recent coffee morning we had they all said they would love the life I have no man under your feet, no nagging him to do things or to get home from the pub and not being pestered for sex when you just don’t feel like it, if only. I asked them all if they would like to go to bed on their own every night or sit and eat their dinner on their own, or to have no sex at all for an entire week, of course all the answers were no. Luckily for me Jennie is in the kind of same boat as me, she met her partner on an adult dating site and they only see each other at weekend as they live 300 miles away from each other.
To be honest Jennie is a god send to me, she comes round most evenings or we go to hers the kids play together and we get to eat our dinner together and have a good old chin wag, watch the latest programs together and just relax in some adult company, they stay over most nights which is a god send. I think I would be completely only if it wasn’t for her, don’t get me wrong my other friends are great but she gets it knows why I feel so down sometimes and vice versa.
However when the weekend comes round it’s a totally different story, I never see any of the girls at weekend it’s all about family time and when the kids are in bed or at our parents we have our sexy adult time, sometimes it’s just lying in bed cuddled up talking and telling each other what we have done in the week but most of the time we are getting down and dirty. It’s always hard saying bye on a Sunday we know we will see each other the next weekend but it’s not the same.
After one awful weekend of arguing and bickering as we were both tired and ill it made me realise I was lucky not to have him here in the week and feel like I am dating someone as being with him twenty four seven would drive me nuts and I think I would do the same with him. So for us the long distance relationship works perfectly well and I wouldn’t change it for the world.