Why is it you can be in a relationship yet you feel like you are single and live alone in your house, well it may just be me but that is how I feel. I have being with my man for over four years now and we have recently moved into a new house, so to me I thought this would be a fresh start and a time to spend more time together and also to have a great time having sex in every room of our new house.
This was not to be the case instead the relationship carried on like when we were in the flat hardly any time together as he is always out with the lads down the pub, don’t get me wrong I don’t mind him going to the pub but when its every night and all day at the weekend that’s when it starts to get on my nerves. It also doesn’t help that the house isn’t fully finished yet we still have plenty of boxes to open and things to put away and sort but I am under the presumption he thinks because he moved it I should put it away.
He would be in for a shock when he gets home from the pub because I’m not doing everything, he can take a run and jump on that one, don’t get me wrong I do love him but I thought we were in an adult dating relationship not a casual sex one that suited him not me.
The relationship for the first couple of year was great we spent most of our time together, having romantic meals, going for walks along the river at night when all the lights are on and having wild sex which went on for hours. Spending the time together was just heavenly we had a mixture of time for one another but had enough time for friends and family plus the alone time which we all need, I am one of those people that likes a bit of me time even if I’m sat on the sofa and doing bugger all the time is bliss.
These days though I have too much alone time and am now getting sick to death of the conversations I have with myself, there is only so many times you can talk to your self before you think you are going nuts and will be taken if in a white jacket one day soon.
To me enough is enough after the pub he will get both barrels of my frustration and he will like it or leave. Well the argument went well his listened and promised to do more to help out plus cut back on the pub a bit and I promised not to nag so much. The best part was the makeup sex, it felt like all those years ago when we first met fun and exciting and lasted all night just perfect.