The sex you should expect being a swinger

So you have embraced the lifestyle of a swinger. You and your partner have found another swinger couple you are comfortable with and enjoy. But what if you want to experience everything being a swinger has to offer? What if there are other types of sexual activity you as a swinger with to try? You’ve tried couple to couple. It’s time, with the approval and enthusiasm of your partners, to try something new.

Obviously a swinger party is the best place to try other sexual activities as it is the best place to meet people of the same mind. If you are invited to one and you are comfortable enough with letting go all of your inhibitions to try something new, then here are some of the other sex forms you can try as a swinger. Remember, everything you do is to be enjoyable for you and your partner and both have the right to say ‘no’ and walk away if boundaries are crossed or if you feel uncomfortable.

Bisexual
Bisexual activities among the swinger community are the coming together of two people of the same sex. It is much more common and accepted among women although men do participate in it as well. Bisexual male activities are usually performed in a separate area of the party and only with prior consent of all parties involved.

Couple To Couple
Two couple get together and swap partners for a period of time before coming together in the same room and continuing on. Couple to couple sex is the heart of being a swinger and enjoying the lifestyle and the four individuals involved usually form a lasting bond that goes beyond the sexual activity.

Extreme Culture
This is your bondage and fetish sex and more times than night it is done in private as compared to a party setting. That’s not to say you do not find it at a party. Sometimes hosts will have a theme night and extreme culture could be the theme. Spanking, sadomasochism, and ‘water sports’ are also part of this type of sex. You will be notified before the party if it will be a theme event so that you can decide whether or not you want to participate.

Group Sex or Orgies
Group sex is defined as four or more swingers interacting sexually, usually as two couples together or more if so desired. There will be plenty of chances and choices in a group sex activity all of which is appropriate as long as the group approves.

Threesomes
This is the way a lot of couples start out as swingers. They meet someone and invite them to join in and the relationship usually lasts well past the initiation into the lifestyle of a swinger.

Voyeurism
Voyeurism in the swinger community is simply watching everyone else with their permission and not actually joining in. This is always done in the group sex area and not in the private areas unless you have been specifically invited to join in as a watcher.