Swinging ethics for the beginner

Swinging is not concept and if the truth be known, it’s probably been around a lot longer than most of think. Swinging in the modern age has developed over the last few decades into a full blown lifestyle that is filled with consenting adults who love to have fun, meet other socially, and enjoy casual sex with no strings attached. As with everything else, though, there are rules and ethics that should be observed when entering the lifestyle.

Here we are going to talk about those ethics so that your first foray into swinging is an enjoyable one and not fraught with embarrassing situations.

Be truthful and honest with yourself, your partner, and the couple you decide to swing with. If you find that the fit isn’t right, let them know so that everyone is on the same swinging page.
Don’t hide your feelings from your partner – either of them. They have the right to know what is going on in your mind and they could very well help you feel better.
Always be yourself. Let your true uniqueness shine through for others to enjoy.
Share your needs, interests, and desires with your swinging couple and partner. They won’t know what to do to please you or to make sure you have a good time unless you tell them. And don’t be vague about it.
Use protection. Enough said.
Don’t be afraid to try new things that are within your sexual limits. You will never know if you will enjoy it unless you try it. If you find out that you don’t like it, you have the right to say ‘no’.
Do not let anyone rush into thing you are not ready for and never rush someone in return. Swinging is to be enjoyed and when you rushed, you become uncomfortable, which is no fun.
Always reply to your partner and swinging couple even if it’s to decline an invitation for whatever reason. Manners are very useful in the swinging set and it shows respect.
Research what swinging is all about so you know what you are getting into. Research new sexual positions and techniques. Research games that can be enjoyed. Research can only make things more enjoyable when you share what you learn.
Do not be rude to anyone in the swinging set when you are taking your first baby swinging steps. The old saying goes that you get more flies with honey than with vinegar. Take it to heart and be friendly and thoughtful, even when you say ‘no’.
Don’t lie to make yourself seem more than what you are, and never cheat on your partner. If you swing or want to try swinging, talk to them about it openly.
Never give out any personal information to someone until you are completely comfortable with them and want to move the relationship into the next level, especially if the feeling is mutual.
Above all else, have fun and enjoy every perk swinging brings your life.